Boudoir photography has become increasingly popular over the last few years. Within the last decade, a steady, positive cultural shift has occurred in how women celebrate their bodies and minds. In the early years of boudoir photography, it was considered taboo, culturally inappropriate, and overtly sexual. Women kept boudoir photos hidden for fear of harmful exploitation or repercussions.

Over time, boudoir photography’s reputation has evolved as the Western world has shifted to become a society that highly values self-care and wellness. Many women now view it as a growth investment in self-perception, a way to change the narrative surrounding body image and self-esteem. While we’ve made amazing progress as a society, some old boudoir photography myths occasionally circulate by word of mouth and online. In this blog, I’ll answer the question, “What Is Boudoir Photography,” and debunk the biggest boudoir photography myths!

What Is Boudoir Photography?

Boudoir is a French word meaning “to sulk.” The genre of photography originated in France in the late 1800s and eventually made its way to the US in the early 20th century. 

Boudoir photography is a candid type of photography. It aims to highlight an individual’s unique self-expression through artistically intimate and empowering poses.

Intimate poses in boudoir photography don’t solely mean sensual or romantic. An artistic, intimate pose that invokes a profoundly personal emotion or highlights a cherished or special part of the body is just as intimate as a sensual or romantic, lingerie-dressed pose. 

Debunking Boudoir Photography Myths!

While boudoir photography is now widely accepted and celebrated, a few lingering myths still spark debate and apprehension. 

Myth #1: You Have To Wear Lingerie During Your Boudoir Session

Of course, lingerie is a popular attire choice for a boudoir session. However, it’s not mandatory or necessary. I often photograph many women who opt to wear oversized shirts, dresses, sportswear, or swimsuits. It’s whatever you feel most empowered in. While what you choose to wear may depend on the goal of your boudoir session, I encourage you to choose outfits you’ve always dreamed of or love wearing. Even if you’re nervous, that feeling will disappear once we begin our session together!

Myth #2: You Have To Do Boudoir Photography For A Partner

This is one of the biggest myths in boudoir photography! While it’s common for individuals to invest in a boudoir session for their partner as a gift, the sentiment behind why women invest in boudoir sessions widely varies. More and more, I’m seeing women book sessions for various self-empowering reasons. Some celebrate weight loss or weight gain, some gift sessions as presents to themselves, and others simply want to get dressed up in cute outfits. At the end of the day, your reason could be big, small, or not a reason at all. You also don’t need a partner. You alone are enough. 

Myth #3: You Have To Have A Perfect Body

Don’t let societal pressures of how a woman “should” look or negative self-talk make you feel like your body doesn’t deserve to be celebrated through boudoir photography. You’re beautiful just as you are, and I’ll be there to ensure you feel as comfortable as possible during your session. There’s no magic tip or trick to achieve body perfection. Everyone’s body is unique, loveable, and worthy of being praised and captured as such.  

Myth #4: Boudoir Photography Is Only For Young People

While boudoir photography is very popular amongst younger generations, older generations shouldn’t feel discouraged when debating whether or not to book a session. In boudoir photography, there’s no such thing as too old. I meet clients wherever they are in their journey of life, whether that’s at 25 or 75. I aim to empower and uplift women as they are, telling their unique stories through images highlighting all the parts that make each woman beautiful. Our bodies have a story to tell. Whether that story is through scars, wrinkles, tattoos, or features, I’m honored to be able to capture the honesty of it.

Myth #5: Boudoir Photography Sessions Are Awkward

It’s normal to be nervous before a session. However, boudoir photography involves a lot of gentle guidance and advice from photographers. I give a lot of direction in my client sessions and prioritize filling my studio space with body positivity. While I don’t allow people to complain about their bodies, I warmly welcome and encourage conversations about what clients are insecure about. The session will be a team effort between you and me. Lots of communication and work will be put in to ensure you’re comfortable throughout the session and leave with a positive, memorable experience.  

Interested In Booking A Boudoir Session?

If booking a boudoir session has been on your mind for a while, and you’ve found yourself reading this blog, this is your sign to embrace your authentic self and take the leap. It will be one of the best decisions you’ll ever make for yourself! I can’t wait to show you just how beautiful you are, inside and out — quirks, light, strength, and all. I’d love to hear about your story and help you book a session. You can also take a look at some of my previous sessions by checking out my gallery!